Struggling to get your sewing community chatting? Our This or That templates make it simple to spark playful conversation and quick engagement. Light and easy, these ready-to-use prompts get everyone involved in seconds.
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This or That prompts work because they lower the barrier to participation. With just two simple choices, members feel comfortable jumping in without overthinking their response. This format creates a relaxed, inclusive vibe where both new and seasoned sewists can share their preferences instantly.
The playful nature of these questions also encourages spontaneous interactions and friendly debates. By focusing on relatable sewing topics, you draw out even your quieter members, making everyone feel seen and valued. This leads to more active threads, stronger connections, and a thriving community culture.
Zippers or buttons - which do you prefer for closures?
💡 Example: "Zippers or buttons - which do you prefer for closures?"
Hand sewing or machine sewing - which do you reach for first?
💡 Example: "Hand sewing or machine sewing - which do you reach for first?"
Solid fabrics or prints - what do you use more often?
💡 Example: "Solid fabrics or prints - what do you use more often?"
Seam ripper or small scissors - what is your go-to fixer?
💡 Example: "Seam ripper or small scissors - what is your go-to fixer?"
Quilting or garment sewing - which do you enjoy more?
💡 Example: "Quilting or garment sewing - which do you enjoy more?"
Pre-wash fabric or sew straight from the store?
💡 Example: "Pre-wash fabric or sew straight from the store?"
PDF patterns or paper patterns - which do you prefer?
💡 Example: "PDF patterns or paper patterns - which do you prefer?"
Pinning or clipping - how do you hold pieces together?
💡 Example: "Pinning or clipping - how do you hold pieces together?"
Sew in the morning or at night - when do you get creative?
💡 Example: "Sew in the morning or at night - when do you get creative?"
Cotton or linen - which fabric do you reach for first?
💡 Example: "Cotton or linen - which fabric do you reach for first?"
Cutting mat or regular table - where do you cut your fabric?
💡 Example: "Cutting mat or regular table - where do you cut your fabric?"
Sewing for yourself or for others - what do you do more?
💡 Example: "Sewing for yourself or for others - what do you do more?"
Matching thread or contrasting thread - which do you pick?
💡 Example: "Matching thread or contrasting thread - which do you pick?"
Patch pockets or inseam pockets - which do you like best?
💡 Example: "Patch pockets or inseam pockets - which do you like best?"
Making gifts or making for yourself - which feels more rewarding?
💡 Example: "Making gifts or making for yourself - which feels more rewarding?"
Woven or knit fabrics - which do you enjoy sewing more?
💡 Example: "Woven or knit fabrics - which do you enjoy sewing more?"
Pre-made bias tape or handmade - what do you use?
💡 Example: "Pre-made bias tape or handmade - what do you use?"
Sewing solo or sewing with friends - what do you prefer?
💡 Example: "Sewing solo or sewing with friends - what do you prefer?"
Seam guide or eyeball it - how do you keep your lines straight?
💡 Example: "Seam guide or eyeball it - how do you keep your lines straight?"
Iron seams open or to one side?
💡 Example: "Iron seams open or to one side?"
Decorative stitches or plain straight stitch?
💡 Example: "Decorative stitches or plain straight stitch?"
Vintage patterns or modern designs?
💡 Example: "Vintage patterns or modern designs?"
Sewing podcasts or music while you sew?
💡 Example: "Sewing podcasts or music while you sew?"
Start a project or finish a UFO - which do you do today?
💡 Example: "Start a project or finish a UFO - which do you do today?"
Sewing books or YouTube tutorials for learning?
💡 Example: "Sewing books or YouTube tutorials for learning?"
Serger or regular sewing machine for seams?
💡 Example: "Serger or regular sewing machine for seams?"
Sewing in silence or chatting while you sew?
💡 Example: "Sewing in silence or chatting while you sew?"
Marking tools - chalk or washable pen?
💡 Example: "Marking tools - chalk or washable pen?"
Sewing room tidy or organized chaos?
💡 Example: "Sewing room tidy or organized chaos?"
Short projects or long-term makes - which do you enjoy more?
💡 Example: "Short projects or long-term makes - which do you enjoy more?"
Making bags or making clothes?
💡 Example: "Making bags or making clothes?"
Topstitching by hand or by machine?
💡 Example: "Topstitching by hand or by machine?"
Planning projects or diving right in?
💡 Example: "Planning projects or diving right in?"
Sewing for holidays or everyday wear?
💡 Example: "Sewing for holidays or everyday wear?"
Using scraps or buying new fabric?
💡 Example: "Using scraps or buying new fabric?"
Sewing challenge - deadline or no pressure?
💡 Example: "Sewing challenge - deadline or no pressure?"
Pre-cut kits or picking your own materials?
💡 Example: "Pre-cut kits or picking your own materials?"
Sewing with pets nearby or solo focus zone?
💡 Example: "Sewing with pets nearby or solo focus zone?"
Making home decor or wardrobe upgrades?
💡 Example: "Making home decor or wardrobe upgrades?"
Organizing supplies by color or by type?
💡 Example: "Organizing supplies by color or by type?"
Sewing with tea or with coffee?
💡 Example: "Sewing with tea or with coffee?"
Pattern weights or pins - how do you keep patterns steady?
💡 Example: "Pattern weights or pins - how do you keep patterns steady?"
To use these templates, simply copy and paste your favorite prompt into your community post or story. Rotate questions throughout the week to keep content fresh and exciting. Encourage members to explain their answers when appropriate, and jump into the conversation yourself to build momentum. Adjust the timing and frequency based on when your community is most active for maximum results.
These templates are designed for all platforms. Use them in Facebook Groups, Instagram Stories, Discord channels, or forums. For visual platforms, pair your prompt with a fun image or poll sticker. In text-based communities, post as a question and pin for higher visibility. Adjust post timing to match your members' peak activity.
A This or That post presents two contrasting sewing options and invites members to choose their favorite. It is a quick, easy way to engage members in light conversation.
Aim for one to three times per week, depending on your community's activity. Regular rotation keeps engagement high without overwhelming members.
Absolutely. Feel free to tweak wording, swap options, or add a call to action that fits your community's style and current discussions.
Try tagging a few active members, answering the prompt yourself first, or posting at a different time. Fun images or polls can also boost participation.
Yes. The questions are designed to be accessible and fun for beginners, hobbyists, and experienced sewists alike.
You can encourage explanations for richer conversation, but it is not required. Keeping the prompt simple helps everyone feel comfortable joining in.
Yes. They work great as Story polls or question stickers. Use images for extra visual appeal and quick responses.