Finding fresh ways to spark conversation in your pregnancy community can be tough. Would You Rather questions offer a playful way to get expecting parents chatting, sharing, and connecting. This template library gives you ready-to-use prompts that make participation easy and fun.
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Would You Rather questions tap into imagination and personal experience, inviting members to explore lighthearted scenarios relevant to pregnancy. These prompts break the ice, lower barriers to participation, and encourage even shy members to join the discussion.
The format keeps things simple and approachable: two choices, no wrong answer. This creates a safe space for members to share opinions, laugh, and reveal a little about themselves. Over time, these interactions build rapport and a sense of belonging in your community.
Would you rather crave pickles every day or never have pregnancy cravings at all?
💡 Example: "Would you rather crave pickles every day or never have pregnancy cravings at all? Tell us why!"
Would you rather have your baby arrive one week early or one week late?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your baby arrive one week early or one week late? Share your thoughts!"
Would you rather decorate the nursery yourself or hire a pro?
💡 Example: "Would you rather decorate the nursery yourself or hire a pro?"
Would you rather have unlimited foot rubs or unlimited snacks during pregnancy?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have unlimited foot rubs or unlimited snacks during pregnancy? Pick one!"
Would you rather find out your baby’s gender early or be surprised at birth?
💡 Example: "Would you rather find out your baby’s gender early or be surprised at birth? Why?"
Would you rather have morning sickness for a month or swollen feet for a month?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have morning sickness for a month or swollen feet for a month?"
Would you rather get all your baby gear as gifts or pick everything out yourself?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get all your baby gear as gifts or pick everything out yourself? Share your style!"
Would you rather have a pregnancy superpower: sleep anywhere or eat anything?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a pregnancy superpower: sleep anywhere or eat anything? Choose one!"
Would you rather have a baby shower in person or a virtual shower?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a baby shower in person or a virtual shower?"
Would you rather have pregnancy documented in a journal or in photos?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have pregnancy documented in a journal or in photos?"
Would you rather have unlimited maternity clothes or comfy pajamas?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have unlimited maternity clothes or comfy pajamas? Pick your favorite!"
Would you rather experience weird cravings or super vivid dreams?
💡 Example: "Would you rather experience weird cravings or super vivid dreams? Tell us your pick!"
Would you rather have your partner do all the household chores or all the cooking during pregnancy?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your partner do all the household chores or all the cooking during pregnancy?"
Would you rather have a birth playlist of your favorite songs or calming nature sounds?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a birth playlist of your favorite songs or calming nature sounds? Share your vibe!"
Would you rather always have the perfect pregnancy pillow or always have the perfect snack?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always have the perfect pregnancy pillow or always have the perfect snack? What would you choose?"
Would you rather announce your pregnancy on social media or keep it private?
💡 Example: "Would you rather announce your pregnancy on social media or keep it private?"
Would you rather have a summer or winter baby?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a summer or winter baby? Why?"
Would you rather go on a babymoon to the mountains or the beach?
💡 Example: "Would you rather go on a babymoon to the mountains or the beach? Where would you go?"
Would you rather have your favorite comfort food or your favorite dessert every day?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your favorite comfort food or your favorite dessert every day?"
Would you rather have all your questions answered by experts or by other parents?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have all your questions answered by experts or by other parents? Tell us why!"
Would you rather have a surprise gender reveal or a planned one?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a surprise gender reveal or a planned one?"
Would you rather have a long list of baby names or just one perfect name?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a long list of baby names or just one perfect name? Share your choice!"
Would you rather have your baby sleep through the night or take great naps?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your baby sleep through the night or take great naps? Pick one!"
Would you rather get parenting advice from your own parents or from books?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get parenting advice from your own parents or from books?"
Would you rather have a pregnancy craving for sweet or salty foods?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a pregnancy craving for sweet or salty foods? Which one?"
Would you rather have a pregnancy journal or a baby photo album?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a pregnancy journal or a baby photo album?"
Would you rather have your partner attend every appointment or just the big ones?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your partner attend every appointment or just the big ones? Share your preference!"
Would you rather get a massage or a pedicure during pregnancy?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get a massage or a pedicure during pregnancy?"
Would you rather have twins or just one baby at a time?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have twins or just one baby at a time? Tell us why!"
Would you rather shop for baby clothes or baby gear?
💡 Example: "Would you rather shop for baby clothes or baby gear?"
Would you rather have a fast labor and delivery or a slow, calm birth experience?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a fast labor and delivery or a slow, calm birth experience? Why?"
Would you rather have a freezer full of meals ready or unlimited takeout for a month after baby arrives?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a freezer full of meals ready or unlimited takeout for a month after baby arrives? Choose one!"
Would you rather share your baby name before birth or keep it secret?
💡 Example: "Would you rather share your baby name before birth or keep it secret?"
Would you rather have your baby be an early riser or a night owl?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your baby be an early riser or a night owl? Pick one!"
Would you rather have a huge baby shower or a small, intimate gathering?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a huge baby shower or a small, intimate gathering?"
Would you rather have pregnancy updates via weekly emails or a pregnancy app?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have pregnancy updates via weekly emails or a pregnancy app? Share your pick!"
Would you rather have a nursery theme based on animals or on colors?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a nursery theme based on animals or on colors?"
Would you rather have your pregnancy announced by a pet or by a sibling?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your pregnancy announced by a pet or by a sibling? Which is cuter?"
Would you rather have a 3D ultrasound or a traditional one?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a 3D ultrasound or a traditional one?"
Would you rather have a pregnancy craving for ice cream or pizza?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a pregnancy craving for ice cream or pizza?"
Would you rather read pregnancy books or watch pregnancy vlogs?
💡 Example: "Would you rather read pregnancy books or watch pregnancy vlogs?"
Post one Would You Rather question at a regular cadence, such as weekly or biweekly, to keep engagement steady. Pin or highlight the post so it stays visible for new members. Encourage everyone to reply with their choice and, if comfortable, a short explanation. Respond to answers to keep the discussion going and tag members who might enjoy participating.
For all platforms, use clear formatting: bold the question, list the two options, and invite members to reply. Use tagging or polls if your platform supports them. Adjust language to fit your community's style and moderation guidelines.
When designing prompts, consider using relatable but light-hearted comparisons such as 'Would you rather deal with morning sickness for a month or swollen feet for a month?' Avoid graphic or potentially sensitive topics. Always use respectful language and offer a 'prefer not to answer' option to accommodate varied experiences.
You can include topics like prenatal testing or birth plans, but frame them in a supportive, non-judgmental way. For example: 'Would you rather have a detailed birth plan or go with the flow on delivery day?' Avoid making assumptions or presenting controversial topics as binary choices to prevent alienating members with differing views.
Balance prompts between universal pregnancy experiences and those that may vary by experience level. For example, use questions like 'Would you rather pack your hospital bag early or last minute?' that anyone can answer. Periodically ask your community for feedback or topic suggestions to ensure inclusivity.
Absolutely! Pregnancy cravings and aversions are highly engaging topics. Get specific with prompts like 'Would you rather crave pickles or ice cream every day during pregnancy?' or 'Would you rather suddenly dislike coffee or chocolate?' Specificity sparks conversation and builds camaraderie among members.
Avoid prompts related to pregnancy loss, fertility struggles, high-risk pregnancy diagnoses, or complications like preeclampsia and gestational diabetes unless your community is specifically for those topics. Steer clear of judgmental language about choices like epidurals vs. natural birth, and always prioritize empathy.
Create trimester-focused prompts such as 'Would you rather experience only first trimester fatigue or only third trimester insomnia?' or 'Would you rather feel baby kicks all day or not at all?' This helps members connect over shared milestones and compare their experiences in a fun, safe environment.
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