Running out of fresh ways to spark conversation in your pregnancy community? These fun This or That templates are designed to get everyone involved with quick, lighthearted choices. Make engagement easy and enjoyable for your members.
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This or That prompts tap into our natural desire to express preferences, making it incredibly easy for members to jump in without overthinking. The low-stakes format lowers barriers to participation, especially for those who might feel shy or unsure about posting. By choosing between two simple options, members feel included and validated, which encourages more frequent interaction.
For pregnancy communities, this style is especially effective because it offers a safe space to share experiences, opinions, and even a little humor about this unique journey. The playful comparisons help members find common ground, discover similarities, and celebrate differences, all while building trust and camaraderie.
Morning sickness or cravings - which one have you dealt with more?
💡 Example: "Cravings! I have wanted pickles every single day."
Team sweet or team salty when it comes to pregnancy snacks?
💡 Example: "Sweet all the way! Ice cream is my go-to."
Would you rather have a nap or a walk right now? Tell us why!
💡 Example: "Nap! I am so tired after work today."
Team organized nursery or go-with-the-flow style?
💡 Example: "Definitely organized! Lists for everything."
Early bird or night owl since pregnancy started?
💡 Example: "Night owl - I cannot fall asleep before midnight!"
Would you rather have a foot massage or a back rub today?
💡 Example: "Back rub please! My lower back is so sore."
Craving fruit or chocolate these days?
💡 Example: "Fruit! Watermelon is my obsession."
Prefer reading birth stories or watching birth vlogs?
💡 Example: "Reading! I love detailed stories."
Maternity jeans or leggings - which is your go-to?
💡 Example: "Leggings every time!"
Would you rather do a baby name poll or a nursery inspiration post?
💡 Example: "Baby name poll! I love seeing everyone’s ideas."
Craving spicy or mild foods this week?
💡 Example: "Spicy! I am all about hot sauce right now."
Do you prefer shopping for baby clothes or baby gear?
💡 Example: "Clothes! Picking out tiny outfits is the best."
Would you rather have a baby shower in person or virtual?
💡 Example: "In person! I miss seeing everyone."
Are you more excited or nervous for your next appointment?
💡 Example: "A bit of both, but mostly excited."
Would you rather have a surprise gender or find out early?
💡 Example: "Find out early! I need to plan."
Pregnancy pillows or extra regular pillows?
💡 Example: "Pregnancy pillow for sure."
Team home remedies or straight to the doctor for symptoms?
💡 Example: "Doctor! I like to be cautious."
Would you rather journal about your experience or take weekly bump photos?
💡 Example: "Bump photos are my thing."
Team classic baby names or unique baby names?
💡 Example: "Unique! I want something special."
Craving ice cream or pickles right now?
💡 Example: "Pickles, believe it or not!"
Prefer pregnancy podcasts or pregnancy books?
💡 Example: "Podcasts, easier to listen on the go."
Would you rather have a date night or a solo self-care night?
💡 Example: "Date night! I miss going out."
Team meal prep or last-minute cravings?
💡 Example: "Last-minute cravings win every time."
Would you rather relax with a bath or a good book?
💡 Example: "Baths are my new favorite thing."
Do you prefer sharing pregnancy updates or keeping things private?
💡 Example: "Mostly private, but I love reading others’ updates."
Would you rather have more energy or more sleep these days?
💡 Example: "Sleep please! I cannot get enough."
Team baby kicks or baby hiccups - which feels cuter to you?
💡 Example: "Kicks! I love feeling those little movements."
Would you rather binge a favorite show or take a quiet nap?
💡 Example: "Show binge! I am all about comfort TV."
Do you prefer planning every detail or going with the flow?
💡 Example: "I am a planner for sure."
Would you rather have your partner pick the baby name or you?
💡 Example: "I want to pick it together."
Craving breakfast foods or dinner foods more lately?
💡 Example: "Breakfast foods, eggs all day."
Would you rather decorate the nursery yourself or hire help?
💡 Example: "DIY all the way!"
Team baby shower games or just food and friends?
💡 Example: "Games! I love a good laugh."
Would you rather get advice from family or from the community?
💡 Example: "Community advice is always helpful."
Do you prefer maternity photos outdoors or in a studio?
💡 Example: "Outdoors! Love the natural light."
Would you rather have a big reveal or a quiet announcement?
💡 Example: "Quiet announcement suits me best."
Team weekly bump photos or monthly updates?
💡 Example: "Weekly! I love seeing the changes."
Would you rather shop online or in-store for baby essentials?
💡 Example: "Online shopping is so much easier."
Do you prefer classic lullabies or modern playlists for baby?
💡 Example: "Modern playlists, love the variety."
Would you rather have a cozy night at home or go out with friends?
💡 Example: "Cozy at home, for sure."
Team baby carriers or strollers for outings?
💡 Example: "Carriers, I love having baby close."
Would you rather get a surprise meal from a friend or a surprise visit?
💡 Example: "Meal! I am always hungry lately."
Are you team early prep or last-minute packer for your hospital bag?
💡 Example: "Early prep! My bag is already packed."
Would you rather have a video call or a text check-in from loved ones?
💡 Example: "Text check-ins are perfect for me."
To use these templates, simply copy and paste your chosen prompt into your community platform. Schedule them regularly or sprinkle them in during quieter periods to boost engagement. Invite members to share why they picked their option for deeper connection. For extra fun, use polls or stories features if your platform supports them. Mix up topics to keep things fresh and welcoming for all experience levels.
These templates work across all platforms. For forums and Facebook Groups, post as text and encourage replies. On Instagram or Facebook Stories, use poll stickers for quick taps. In chat apps like Slack or Discord, paste prompts and react to answers with emojis. Adapt tone slightly if needed to match your community's style.
When crafting prompts, avoid topics that could inadvertently exclude or upset members, such as 'vaginal birth vs. C-section' or 'natural conception vs. IVF'. Instead, focus on universally relatable, low-pressure choices like 'prenatal yoga vs. walking' or 'fruit cravings vs. salty cravings'. Always include a disclaimer that all experiences are valid and respected.
Great prompt examples include 'morning sickness vs. heartburn', 'swollen ankles vs. backaches', or 'insomnia vs. vivid dreams'. These options use familiar pregnancy terminology and open the door for members to share tips and empathetic stories about their symptoms.
Create posts like 'first trimester fatigue vs. third trimester discomfort' or 'baby kicks vs. hiccups' to normalize the various trimester milestones. Prompts like these help members realize that diverse experiences throughout pregnancy are normal, fostering a supportive environment.
Use gentle, non-judgmental phrasing and focus on preparation preferences rather than outcomes. For example, try 'birthing classes: in-person vs. online' or 'packing the hospital bag early vs. last-minute'. Avoid prompts that pit medical decisions against each other in a way that could make members feel pressured or judged.
Choose prompts that are culturally inclusive, like 'traditional remedies vs. doctor-recommended solutions' or 'celebrating with a baby shower vs. a blessingway'. Offer translations or brief explanations for any culturally specific terms, and invite members to share their own traditions in the comments.
Frame prompts in a supportive way, such as 'napping when baby sleeps vs. catching up on chores' or 'breastfeeding vs. formula feeding (no judgment!)'. Use inclusive language and encourage sharing of resources, recognizing the range of postpartum recovery experiences. Always remind members that each choice is valid and personal.
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