Looking for a playful way to engage your post partum community? Would You Rather questions spark lively discussions and help members connect over shared experiences. Use these ready-made prompts to break the ice and inspire creative conversations.
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Would You Rather questions work because they invite members to consider relatable situations in a fun, low-pressure way. These prompts encourage everyone to participate, from new members to regular contributors, fostering a sense of belonging and community. By presenting two intriguing scenarios, you tap into your members' creativity and real-life experiences, making every answer unique and meaningful.
For post partum communities, these questions validate the wide range of emotions and choices new parents encounter. They help normalize different experiences, reduce feelings of isolation, and create opportunities for members to share advice or laughter. This combination of light-hearted fun and genuine connection makes Would You Rather posts a powerful engagement tool.
Would you rather have an extra hour of sleep or a hot meal every day post partum?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have an extra hour of sleep or a hot meal every day post partum? Tell us why!"
Would you rather get a week of free babysitting or a month of laundry service?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get a week of free babysitting or a month of laundry service? Drop your answer below!"
Would you rather have a never-ending supply of snacks or coffee during night feeds?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a never-ending supply of snacks or coffee during night feeds?"
Would you rather your baby nap like a champion or sleep through the night?
💡 Example: "Would you rather your baby nap like a champion or sleep through the night? Share your choice!"
Would you rather get daily showers or daily naps for a month?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get daily showers or daily naps for a month?"
Would you rather have a magic button to calm your baby or one that cleans your house?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a magic button to calm your baby or one that cleans your house? Let us know!"
Would you rather get a gourmet homemade meal or a professional house cleaning service once a week?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get a gourmet homemade meal or a professional house cleaning service once a week?"
Would you rather have baby clothes that never stain or bottles that never need washing?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have baby clothes that never stain or bottles that never need washing?"
Would you rather receive a heartfelt letter or a surprise care package from a loved one?
💡 Example: "Would you rather receive a heartfelt letter or a surprise care package from a loved one?"
Would you rather spend an afternoon alone or with friends who understand post partum life?
💡 Example: "Would you rather spend an afternoon alone or with friends who understand post partum life? Share your choice!"
Would you rather have a year of free diapers or a year of free wipes?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a year of free diapers or a year of free wipes?"
Would you rather listen to lullabies on repeat or white noise all night?
💡 Example: "Would you rather listen to lullabies on repeat or white noise all night?"
Would you rather have visitors bring food or help with chores?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have visitors bring food or help with chores? What would you pick?"
Would you rather watch your favorite show uninterrupted or take a long peaceful bath?
💡 Example: "Would you rather watch your favorite show uninterrupted or take a long peaceful bath?"
Would you rather have a magical stroller that folds itself or a crib that rocks your baby to sleep?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a magical stroller that folds itself or a crib that rocks your baby to sleep?"
Would you rather share your funniest or your most heartwarming post partum moment?
💡 Example: "Would you rather share your funniest or your most heartwarming post partum moment? Let us know!"
Would you rather always have clean hair or always have matching socks?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always have clean hair or always have matching socks?"
Would you rather be able to nap anywhere or eat anything one-handed?
💡 Example: "Would you rather be able to nap anywhere or eat anything one-handed? Comment your pick!"
Would you rather get advice from a parenting expert or from another parent in the trenches?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get advice from a parenting expert or from another parent in the trenches?"
Would you rather have an endless supply of burp cloths or pacifiers?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have an endless supply of burp cloths or pacifiers?"
Would you rather relive your baby's first smile or their first laugh?
💡 Example: "Would you rather relive your baby's first smile or their first laugh? Share your memories!"
Would you rather have a full night's sleep or a day to yourself?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a full night's sleep or a day to yourself? Tell us why!"
Would you rather get to shower in peace or finish a hot cup of coffee?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get to shower in peace or finish a hot cup of coffee?"
Would you rather have a magical meal delivery or a self-cleaning kitchen?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a magical meal delivery or a self-cleaning kitchen? Comment below!"
Would you rather babywear all day or use a stroller everywhere?
💡 Example: "Would you rather babywear all day or use a stroller everywhere?"
Would you rather always know what your baby needs or have a guaranteed hour of self-care daily?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always know what your baby needs or have a guaranteed hour of self-care daily? Tell us your pick!"
Would you rather have endless patience or endless energy during the newborn stage?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have endless patience or endless energy during the newborn stage?"
Would you rather have a friend bring you groceries or take your baby for a walk?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a friend bring you groceries or take your baby for a walk?"
Would you rather have your baby sleep in or wake up smiling every day?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your baby sleep in or wake up smiling every day?"
Would you rather have a baby monitor that never loses signal or a diaper bag that packs itself?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a baby monitor that never loses signal or a diaper bag that packs itself?"
Would you rather get a full day with no housework or a full day with no baby fussiness?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get a full day with no housework or a full day with no baby fussiness? Share your dream!"
Would you rather have a partner who cooks or one who cleans during post partum?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a partner who cooks or one who cleans during post partum?"
Would you rather get advice you did not ask for or receive no advice at all?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get advice you did not ask for or receive no advice at all?"
Would you rather have a never-ending playlist of calming music or funny podcasts?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a never-ending playlist of calming music or funny podcasts? Tell us your pick!"
Would you rather receive a meal train or a cleaning crew in your first month post partum?
💡 Example: "Would you rather receive a meal train or a cleaning crew in your first month post partum? Share your choice!"
Would you rather be gifted a giant box of diapers or a month of streaming service?
💡 Example: "Would you rather be gifted a giant box of diapers or a month of streaming service?"
Would you rather have your fridge magically restock or your laundry magically fold itself?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have your fridge magically restock or your laundry magically fold itself?"
Would you rather connect with other parents online or in person during post partum?
💡 Example: "Would you rather connect with other parents online or in person during post partum?"
Would you rather always have fresh sheets or always have a stocked snack drawer?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always have fresh sheets or always have a stocked snack drawer?"
Would you rather wear comfy pajamas all day or get dressed up just once a week?
💡 Example: "Would you rather wear comfy pajamas all day or get dressed up just once a week?"
Would you rather get a handwritten note from your baby (if they could write) or a free massage?
💡 Example: "Would you rather get a handwritten note from your baby (if they could write) or a free massage? Share below!"
To use these templates, copy and paste your chosen question into your community platform. Add a personal touch or adapt the scenario to suit your group's tone if needed. Encourage members to share their reasoning, and consider tagging a few members to kickstart the conversation. Rotate new questions regularly to keep discussions fresh and engaging.
These Would You Rather templates work across all platforms. For forums and Facebook groups, post as a new thread and pin for visibility. On chat-based platforms, use them as conversation starters or in dedicated discussion channels. Add a simple visual or emoji to catch attention, and consider scheduling regular Would You Rather days to build anticipation.
To foster holistic discussions, alternate prompts between physical and emotional experiences. For example, use questions like 'Would you rather get a full night's sleep or have an hour for self-care?' and 'Would you rather talk openly about postpartum mood changes or focus on physical healing?' Tailoring prompts to these dual aspects helps members feel seen and understood.
Yes, but it's crucial to phrase the prompts neutrally and encourage a supportive tone. Instead of framing it as a competition, ask, 'Would you rather discuss your breastfeeding journey or your experiences with formula feeding?' Remind members that every journey is valid and the goal is to share, not judge.
Include scenarios that normalize mental health struggles, such as 'Would you rather have more support with night feedings or more resources for postpartum mental health?' These prompts foster open dialogue and let members know they're not alone in facing these challenges.
Absolutely—body image is a key postpartum topic. Use empathetic language, e.g., 'Would you rather embrace your stretch marks as reminders of motherhood or work toward regaining your pre-baby body?' Always preface these posts with reminders for body positivity and respect for individual journeys.
Pose scenarios like, 'Would you rather have extended maternity leave or flexible work-from-home options?' This helps members discuss real challenges and exchange advice, making the community a valuable resource for those at this crossroads.
Craft relatable scenarios such as 'Would you rather have a night nanny for a week or get daily naps for a month?' These prompts validate common struggles and encourage members to share coping strategies, fostering a supportive environment.
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