Struggling to spark fun, easy conversations in your personal style community? This or That prompts make it simple to get members talking and sharing their preferences. Use these playful templates to lighten the mood and encourage spontaneous engagement.
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This or That questions work because they lower the barrier to participation. Members do not have to craft long responses or worry about saying the 'right' thing—they just pick a side. This casual format feels approachable and inclusive, so even quieter community members feel comfortable chiming in.
The simplicity of two contrasting choices creates instant connection and relatability. Members love to see how their tastes compare to others, and a touch of friendly debate can drive comment threads. Plus, these prompts subtly reveal personality and preferences, deepening community bonds over time.
Sneakers or boots - which do you wear more often?
💡 Example: "Sneakers or boots - which do you wear more often? I am team sneakers!"
Bold prints or solid colors? Pick your favorite and tell us why!
💡 Example: "Bold prints or solid colors? Pick your favorite and tell us why! I love prints because they make a statement."
Minimalist style or maximalist vibes?
💡 Example: "Minimalist style or maximalist vibes? I am all about the minimalist look."
Jeans or leggings for your go-to comfort outfit?
💡 Example: "Jeans or leggings for your go-to comfort outfit? Leggings all the way!"
Statement earrings or delicate studs?
💡 Example: "Statement earrings or delicate studs? I love statement pieces!"
Classic black or crisp white - which do you reach for more?
💡 Example: "Classic black or crisp white - which do you reach for more? Black, always."
Heels or flats for a night out?
💡 Example: "Heels or flats for a night out? I choose flats for comfort."
Denim jacket or leather jacket?
💡 Example: "Denim jacket or leather jacket? Leather for sure."
Layering up or keeping it simple?
💡 Example: "Layering up or keeping it simple? I love to layer!"
Dresses or jumpsuits for special occasions?
💡 Example: "Dresses or jumpsuits for special occasions? Jumpsuits for me."
Tote bag or crossbody - which is your daily pick?
💡 Example: "Tote bag or crossbody - which is your daily pick? Crossbody every time."
Gold or silver jewelry - which do you prefer?
💡 Example: "Gold or silver jewelry - which do you prefer? Silver for me."
Vintage finds or brand new pieces?
💡 Example: "Vintage finds or brand new pieces? I love vintage!"
Neutral tones or bright pops of color?
💡 Example: "Neutral tones or bright pops of color? Bright colors make me happy."
Sneakers with everything or only with athleisure?
💡 Example: "Sneakers with everything or only with athleisure? Everything!"
Structured blazer or cozy cardigan?
💡 Example: "Structured blazer or cozy cardigan? Blazer for meetings."
Graphic tee or plain tee for a casual day?
💡 Example: "Graphic tee or plain tee for a casual day? Graphic, every time."
Long hair or short hair - which suits your style?
💡 Example: "Long hair or short hair - which suits your style? Short hair for me."
Bold lipstick or natural lips?
💡 Example: "Bold lipstick or natural lips? I love a bold lip."
Monochrome looks or mix-and-match patterns?
💡 Example: "Monochrome looks or mix-and-match patterns? Mix-and-match for fun."
Ankle boots or knee-high boots?
💡 Example: "Ankle boots or knee-high boots? Ankle boots always."
Chunky sweaters or sleek turtlenecks?
💡 Example: "Chunky sweaters or sleek turtlenecks? I love chunky sweaters."
Neutral makeup or colorful eyeshadow?
💡 Example: "Neutral makeup or colorful eyeshadow? Neutral for daily wear."
Sunglasses or hats as your must-have accessory?
💡 Example: "Sunglasses or hats as your must-have accessory? Sunglasses!"
Matching sets or mix-and-match separates?
💡 Example: "Matching sets or mix-and-match separates? I mix and match."
Button-down shirts or cozy hoodies?
💡 Example: "Button-down shirts or cozy hoodies? Hoodies for days."
Backpack or handbag for daily essentials?
💡 Example: "Backpack or handbag for daily essentials? Backpack is my go-to."
Slides or lace-up shoes for weekend errands?
💡 Example: "Slides or lace-up shoes for weekend errands? Slides every time."
Bold nails or classic nude nails?
💡 Example: "Bold nails or classic nude nails? I love bold nails!"
Oversized sunglasses or tiny frames?
💡 Example: "Oversized sunglasses or tiny frames? Oversized for me."
High-waist or mid-rise pants?
💡 Example: "High-waist or mid-rise pants? High-waist all the way."
Pastel shades or deep jewel tones?
💡 Example: "Pastel shades or deep jewel tones? Jewel tones suit me best."
Structured handbags or slouchy totes?
💡 Example: "Structured handbags or slouchy totes? I prefer slouchy totes."
Sneakers: classic white or fun colors?
💡 Example: "Sneakers: classic white or fun colors? I love fun colors."
Print mixing or keeping it matchy-matchy?
💡 Example: "Print mixing or keeping it matchy-matchy? I like to mix prints."
Everyday watch or stack of bracelets?
💡 Example: "Everyday watch or stack of bracelets? Bracelets for me."
Fun socks or no-show socks?
💡 Example: "Fun socks or no-show socks? Fun socks make my day."
Fragrance: floral or woody scents?
💡 Example: "Fragrance: floral or woody scents? Woody for me."
Wearing hats: yay or nay?
💡 Example: "Wearing hats: yay or nay? Yay, I love hats!"
Wide-leg pants or skinny jeans?
💡 Example: "Wide-leg pants or skinny jeans? Wide-leg for me."
Wristwatch or smartwatch?
💡 Example: "Wristwatch or smartwatch? Smartwatch is my pick."
Plaid or stripes - which pattern rules your closet?
💡 Example: "Plaid or stripes - which pattern rules your closet? Stripes for sure!"
Pick a few templates each week and share them as posts, Stories, or chat messages across your platforms. Use visuals or photos to make posts eye-catching when possible. Encourage members to vote by reacting, commenting, or using poll features. For higher engagement, occasionally invite members to explain their choice or tag a friend. Vary the topics to keep things fresh and inclusive.
These templates work across all platforms. On Instagram or Facebook, use Stories or polls for quick responses. In forums or Discord, post as chat prompts and pin for visibility. On LinkedIn, keep examples professional and inclusive. Always adjust the format to suit your platform's features.
A This or That post gives members two contrasting style options and invites them to choose their favorite. It is a quick, fun way to spark engagement and learn about preferences.
You can use them 1-3 times per week to keep conversations active without overwhelming your feed. Mix with other content for variety.
Yes, the simple format makes it easy for lurkers or new members to participate. The low-pressure choices help everyone feel included.
Occasionally add a follow-up prompt like 'Tell us why' or 'Share a photo' to invite members to elaborate and deepen the conversation.
Stick to lighthearted, non-polarizing choices around style, fashion, and beauty. Avoid topics that could spark heated debate or exclude members.
Absolutely! Feel free to tailor the wording or choices to better fit your group's unique vibe and interests.
Use polls, Stories, chat posts, or images based on your platform. Adapt the format for maximum visibility and ease of response.