Struggling to get parents talking in your community? Light-hearted 'This or That' questions are an easy way to spark conversation and get members involved. Use these ready-to-go prompts to keep your parenting group fun, relatable, and active.
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This or That questions work because they are simple, approachable, and require little effort to answer. Members do not need to write lengthy responses or overthink their input, making participation almost effortless. This style also reduces social pressure, encouraging even shy or new members to join in.
The playful nature of contrasting choices creates instant connection points and can reveal shared experiences among parents. By focusing on everyday parenting moments, these prompts foster a sense of community and belonging. They also generate a steady flow of comments, increasing visibility and engagement across your group.
Morning cuddles or extra sleep - which would you pick today?
💡 Example: "Morning cuddles or extra sleep - which would you pick today? I am a cuddles fan!"
Storytime or screen time - what is the go-to in your house?
💡 Example: "Storytime or screen time - what is the go-to in your house? We read every night."
Playground adventure or indoor crafts - what would your kids choose?
💡 Example: "Playground adventure or indoor crafts - what would your kids choose? Always the playground here!"
Sippy cups or open cups - which do you prefer for toddlers?
💡 Example: "Sippy cups or open cups - which do you prefer for toddlers? We use sippy cups."
Pack lunches or buy school meals?
💡 Example: "Pack lunches or buy school meals? Pack lunches for us."
Early bedtime or late-night stories - which do you love more?
💡 Example: "Early bedtime or late-night stories - which do you love more? We love late-night stories!"
Playdates at home or at the park?
💡 Example: "Playdates at home or at the park? The park is our favorite."
Diaper bag or backpack - which do you carry?
💡 Example: "Diaper bag or backpack - which do you carry? Backpack all the way."
Bath time: bubbles or toys?
💡 Example: "Bath time: bubbles or toys? My kids want both!"
Cooking with kids or solo meal prep - what is your style?
💡 Example: "Cooking with kids or solo meal prep - what is your style? I prefer solo meal prep."
Rainy day: board games or movie marathon?
💡 Example: "Rainy day: board games or movie marathon? Movie marathon for us."
Morning routine: chaos or calm?
💡 Example: "Morning routine: chaos or calm? Usually chaos!"
Snack time: fruit or crackers?
💡 Example: "Snack time: fruit or crackers? Crackers here!"
Bedtime stories: classic fairy tales or silly new books?
💡 Example: "Bedtime stories: classic fairy tales or silly new books? Fairy tales every night."
Car trip: music or podcasts?
💡 Example: "Car trip: music or podcasts? We listen to music."
Birthday party: big bash or small gathering?
💡 Example: "Birthday party: big bash or small gathering? Small gathering for us."
Family photos: matching outfits or anything goes?
💡 Example: "Family photos: matching outfits or anything goes? Matching outfits are a must!"
Saturday mornings: cartoons or outdoor play?
💡 Example: "Saturday mornings: cartoons or outdoor play? Cartoons first, then outside."
Parenting style: planner or go-with-the-flow?
💡 Example: "Parenting style: planner or go-with-the-flow? I am a planner!"
After school: sports or arts and crafts?
💡 Example: "After school: sports or arts and crafts? We love arts and crafts."
Favorite family night: pizza or tacos?
💡 Example: "Favorite family night: pizza or tacos? Tacos for the win."
Laundry day: fold now or leave for later?
💡 Example: "Laundry day: fold now or leave for later? Leave for later every time."
Road trip: snacks packed or stop for treats?
💡 Example: "Road trip: snacks packed or stop for treats? We pack snacks."
Holiday mornings: sleep in or up early with excitement?
💡 Example: "Holiday mornings: sleep in or up early with excitement? We are up early every time!"
Kids' shoes: Velcro or laces?
💡 Example: "Kids' shoes: Velcro or laces? Velcro all the way."
Rain boots or sneakers on muddy days?
💡 Example: "Rain boots or sneakers on muddy days? Always rain boots here."
Favorite treat: ice cream or cookies?
💡 Example: "Favorite treat: ice cream or cookies? Cookies!"
Weekend plans: stay home or family outing?
💡 Example: "Weekend plans: stay home or family outing? We love outings."
Socks: matching or whatever is clean?
💡 Example: "Socks: matching or whatever is clean? Whatever is clean!"
Parenting win: solo grocery trip or a quiet cup of coffee?
💡 Example: "Parenting win: solo grocery trip or a quiet cup of coffee? Coffee please!"
Baby carrier or stroller for walks?
💡 Example: "Baby carrier or stroller for walks? We use the stroller."
Kids' art: hang it up or store it away?
💡 Example: "Kids' art: hang it up or store it away? We hang everything up!"
Favorite family pet: dog or cat?
💡 Example: "Favorite family pet: dog or cat? We are cat people."
Lunchbox notes: every day or special occasions?
💡 Example: "Lunchbox notes: every day or special occasions? Only on birthdays here."
Parenting break: nap or binge-watch a show?
💡 Example: "Parenting break: nap or binge-watch a show? Show every time."
Kids' chores: routine or as-needed?
💡 Example: "Kids' chores: routine or as-needed? We do routine chores."
First day of school: excited or nervous?
💡 Example: "First day of school: excited or nervous? Mine are always excited."
Packing for trips: days ahead or last minute?
💡 Example: "Packing for trips: days ahead or last minute? Always last minute here."
Kids' rooms: themed decor or mix and match?
💡 Example: "Kids' rooms: themed decor or mix and match? Themed for us."
Parenting win: everyone eats dinner or bedtime on time?
💡 Example: "Parenting win: everyone eats dinner or bedtime on time? Bedtime on time is a big win!"
Post one 'This or That' question at regular intervals, such as once or twice a week, to keep conversations lively. Pin or highlight especially popular prompts to encourage ongoing participation. Invite members to explain their choices for deeper interaction, but keep the focus on fun and quick replies. Rotate topics to appeal to parents at different stages and with varying interests.
For all platforms, use eye-catching visuals or emojis to make posts stand out in busy feeds. Schedule posts during peak activity times for parents, like early mornings or evenings. Use polls or story features where available to make participation as simple as tapping a button.
Absolutely! These templates are perfect for sparking respectful discussions about parenting styles such as 'authoritative vs permissive' or 'attachment vs free-range.' Just ensure that poll options are phrased in a non-judgmental way to encourage open conversation rather than debates.
When making posts about sensitive topics like screen time, frame the choices in a way that acknowledges different family needs, such as 'Strict daily limits vs flexible screen time on weekends.' Add a note encouraging parents to share what works for their unique situations, and remind members that there’s no one-size-fits-all solution.
Great options for toddler bedtime routines include 'Bath before books vs books before bath,' 'Co-sleeping vs independent sleepers,' or 'Consistent bedtime vs flexible depending on the day.' These relatable scenarios help parents share tips and discover new routines.
'This or That' templates can explore picky eating dilemmas, such as 'Offer new foods daily vs stick with favorites,' or 'Sneak veggies in meals vs serve them as is.' Encourage sharing of strategies and reassure members that picky eating is a common phase in child development.
When addressing discipline, use neutral and inclusive language, for example: 'Time-outs vs natural consequences,' or 'Positive reinforcement vs setting clear boundaries.' Remind members that all families are different, and the goal is to learn from various perspectives, not to judge.
Rotate your templates to cover topics relevant to a range of ages, such as 'Baby-led weaning vs traditional purees' for infants, or 'After-school sports vs arts programs' for older kids. You can also prompt members to specify their child’s age when responding, creating more targeted discussions.
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