Finding it hard to keep your marriage community lively and interactive? Our Would You Rather templates offer a playful way to foster connection, spark laughter, and encourage members to share their stories. Get ready to transform engagement with easy, creative prompts.
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Would You Rather questions are a proven way to break the ice and invite participation, even from the quietest members. By presenting two intriguing scenarios, members are nudged to make a choice, which lowers the pressure of starting a conversation from scratch.
This content type naturally fuels storytelling as members explain their preferences, offering glimpses into their personalities and relationships. For marriage communities, these prompts open the door to lighthearted debates and shared experiences, building bonds and a sense of belonging.
Most importantly, Would You Rather posts are quick to answer yet spark ongoing discussion, making them ideal for regular engagement and keeping community conversations fresh and fun.
Would you rather have a monthly date night in or a spontaneous weekend getaway?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a monthly date night in or a spontaneous weekend getaway? Tell us why!"
Would you rather cook every meal together or always try new restaurants?
💡 Example: "Would you rather cook every meal together or always try new restaurants? Share your pick!"
Would you rather receive a love letter every week or a surprise gift once a month?
💡 Example: "Would you rather receive a love letter every week or a surprise gift once a month? Explain your choice!"
Would you rather take a dream vacation with your spouse or renovate your home together?
💡 Example: "Would you rather take a dream vacation with your spouse or renovate your home together? Let us know!"
Would you rather relive your wedding day or fast-forward to your 50th anniversary?
💡 Example: "Would you rather relive your wedding day or fast-forward to your 50th anniversary? Why?"
Would you rather plan every detail or go with the flow for big decisions?
💡 Example: "Would you rather plan every detail or go with the flow for big decisions?"
Would you rather binge a favorite TV series together or try a new hobby as a couple?
💡 Example: "Would you rather binge a favorite TV series together or try a new hobby as a couple?"
Would you rather celebrate every anniversary with a big party or a private retreat?
💡 Example: "Would you rather celebrate every anniversary with a big party or a private retreat? Share why!"
Would you rather have matching pajamas or matching mugs?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have matching pajamas or matching mugs?"
Would you rather always agree on movies or always agree on dinner choices?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always agree on movies or always agree on dinner choices?"
Would you rather travel the world together or build your dream home from scratch?
💡 Example: "Would you rather travel the world together or build your dream home from scratch? Tell us!"
Would you rather revisit your honeymoon or take a brand new adventure?
💡 Example: "Would you rather revisit your honeymoon or take a brand new adventure?"
Would you rather never argue but keep secrets, or always be honest but sometimes disagree?
💡 Example: "Would you rather never argue but keep secrets, or always be honest but sometimes disagree? Why?"
Would you rather share all hobbies or keep a few just for yourself?
💡 Example: "Would you rather share all hobbies or keep a few just for yourself?"
Would you rather always have matching schedules or unlimited vacation days together?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always have matching schedules or unlimited vacation days together? What would you pick?"
Would you rather be known as the adventurous couple or the most supportive couple?
💡 Example: "Would you rather be known as the adventurous couple or the most supportive couple?"
Would you rather take dance lessons together or cooking classes?
💡 Example: "Would you rather take dance lessons together or cooking classes?"
Would you rather have an epic proposal story or a hilarious wedding mishap?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have an epic proposal story or a hilarious wedding mishap? Share your pick!"
Would you rather spend a year living in a tiny house or a houseboat together?
💡 Example: "Would you rather spend a year living in a tiny house or a houseboat together?"
Would you rather renew your vows every five years or never celebrate anniversaries?
💡 Example: "Would you rather renew your vows every five years or never celebrate anniversaries? Why?"
Would you rather have a spouse who sings all the time or one who loves practical jokes?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a spouse who sings all the time or one who loves practical jokes?"
Would you rather go tech-free for a weekend or binge-watch movies all day together?
💡 Example: "Would you rather go tech-free for a weekend or binge-watch movies all day together? Tell us why!"
Would you rather always remember each other's birthdays or never forget an anniversary?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always remember each other's birthdays or never forget an anniversary?"
Would you rather have a pet together or travel pet-free forever?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a pet together or travel pet-free forever? Share your answer!"
Would you rather always cook breakfast for your spouse or always make their coffee?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always cook breakfast for your spouse or always make their coffee?"
Would you rather have a regular couples' game night or outdoor adventure days?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a regular couples' game night or outdoor adventure days? Which is your style?"
Would you rather have a partner who loves surprises or one who prefers routines?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a partner who loves surprises or one who prefers routines?"
Would you rather win a couples' talent show or a couples' trivia contest?
💡 Example: "Would you rather win a couples' talent show or a couples' trivia contest?"
Would you rather always have your spouse pick the movie or the restaurant?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always have your spouse pick the movie or the restaurant?"
Would you rather have a spouse who loves to dance or one who sings karaoke?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a spouse who loves to dance or one who sings karaoke?"
Would you rather revisit your first date or recreate your proposal?
💡 Example: "Would you rather revisit your first date or recreate your proposal? Tell us your pick!"
Would you rather share a bank account or keep finances totally separate?
💡 Example: "Would you rather share a bank account or keep finances totally separate? Why?"
Would you rather wake up early together every day or stay up late talking?
💡 Example: "Would you rather wake up early together every day or stay up late talking?"
Would you rather have a big family or just the two of you forever?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a big family or just the two of you forever?"
Would you rather always agree on home decor or never agree but have fun debates?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always agree on home decor or never agree but have fun debates? Share your style!"
Would you rather have unlimited date nights or unlimited alone time?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have unlimited date nights or unlimited alone time? Which would you choose?"
Would you rather have a spouse who writes poems or paints portraits of you?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a spouse who writes poems or paints portraits of you?"
Would you rather always be the planner or let your spouse do all the planning?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always be the planner or let your spouse do all the planning?"
Would you rather surprise your spouse with breakfast in bed or a handwritten note?
💡 Example: "Would you rather surprise your spouse with breakfast in bed or a handwritten note? Your choice?"
Would you rather always celebrate holidays at home or travel somewhere new every year?
💡 Example: "Would you rather always celebrate holidays at home or travel somewhere new every year? Let us know!"
Would you rather have a spouse who loves adventure sports or one who prefers cozy nights in?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a spouse who loves adventure sports or one who prefers cozy nights in?"
Post a Would You Rather question as a new discussion, story, or poll depending on your platform. Encourage members to not only select an option but also share the reason behind their choice for richer engagement. Use these templates on a weekly or bi-weekly basis to keep participation high and help new members jump in effortlessly. Mix up topics, from daily routines to big dreams, to maintain interest and relevance.
For all platforms, adapt Would You Rather questions as posts, stories, or polls. Use visuals or emojis to highlight each choice and consider pinning the post for maximum visibility. On chat-based platforms, tag active members or use scheduled posts for regular engagement.
Select or adapt 'Would You Rather' prompts that reference real-life marital scenarios, such as 'Would you rather have a weekly budget meeting or tackle financial topics only as needed?' or 'Would you rather resolve arguments immediately or take time to cool off before discussing?' These encourage couples to reflect on and share their own experiences, leading to deeper group discussions.
Yes, topics like intimacy, fertility, or challenging in-law relationships can be sensitive. When using 'Would You Rather' questions about these areas, frame them positively and provide an opt-out option. For example, 'Would you rather spend holidays with your own family or your spouse's? Why?' This encourages sharing without pressuring members to disclose personal struggles.
Design questions that invite different perspectives, such as 'Would you rather plan a surprise date night or have your spouse plan one for you?' Prompt each spouse to answer independently before sharing with the group. This approach sparks fun discussions and highlights individual preferences within a marriage context.
For newlyweds, focus on light-hearted choices about building a life together (e.g., 'Would you rather decorate your home together or have one person take the lead?'). For long-married couples, incorporate questions about shared experiences and growth, like 'Would you rather relive your wedding day or your favorite vacation together?' Mixing both types keeps all members engaged.
Absolutely, but be mindful of your group's diversity. Use questions like 'Would you rather attend a marriage retreat at your place of worship or try a secular couples' workshop?' This invites sharing of values without assuming beliefs and helps foster respectful dialogue.
Set clear guidelines for respectful communication before starting. If a question sparks debate (e.g., about parenting styles), remind members that there's no right or wrong answer—just different perspectives. Encourage couples to listen and learn from each other's experiences, turning disagreements into opportunities for growth.
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