This or That Post Ideas to Boost Hairstyling Community Engagement

Frustrated with getting your hairstyling community chatting? This or That prompts are a playful way to get everyone involved, no matter how busy. With these ready-made templates, you can spark quick responses and build real connection in your group.

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Why This Works

This or That questions tap into our instinct for quick decision-making, making it easy for even shy members to join the conversation. By offering two simple choices, you lower the barrier to entry and create a sense of inclusion. Members do not need to overthink or write long replies, which increases participation from all engagement levels.

The hairstyling spin keeps things relevant and fun, making it easy for everyone to share their preferences and discover what others love. This format also encourages lighthearted debates and friendly banter, which strengthens community bonds and keeps the mood positive.

42 Ready-to-Use Templates

1

Curls or straight hair? Which do you love more?

💡 Example: "Curls or straight hair? Which do you love more? I am all about big curls!"

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #preference #hair_type #fun
2

Updo or down-do for a night out?

💡 Example: "Updo or down-do for a night out? I always go for an updo."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Irregular #event #style
3

Would you pick bangs or no bangs?

💡 Example: "Would you pick bangs or no bangs? No bangs for me."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #haircut #preference
4

Long hair or short hair - what is your vibe?

💡 Example: "Long hair or short hair - what is your vibe? Short all the way!"

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #length #style
5

Bold color or natural tones for your next look?

💡 Example: "Bold color or natural tones for your next look? I am thinking purple!"

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Frequent #color #trendy
6

Classic ponytail or messy bun?

💡 Example: "Classic ponytail or messy bun? Messy bun every time."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #updo #style
7

Beach waves or sleek and smooth?

💡 Example: "Beach waves or sleek and smooth? I love beach waves."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #texture #trendy
8

Would you rather DIY your hair or visit a salon?

💡 Example: "Would you rather DIY your hair or visit a salon? Salon all the way for me."

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Frequent #salon #DIY
9

Half-up style or all down?

💡 Example: "Half-up style or all down? I usually wear it all down."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #style #simple
10

Braids or buns for summer days?

💡 Example: "Braids or buns for summer days? Braids keep me cool."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Irregular #summer #updo
11

Would you rather have a pixie cut or waist-length hair?

💡 Example: "Would you rather have a pixie cut or waist-length hair? Pixie cut for the win!"

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Top #drastic #length
12

Dry shampoo or wash and go?

💡 Example: "Dry shampoo or wash and go? Dry shampoo saves my mornings."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #routine #products
13

Would you choose highlights or balayage?

💡 Example: "Would you choose highlights or balayage? Balayage looks so natural."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Irregular #color #technique
14

Hair accessories: scrunchies or clips?

💡 Example: "Hair accessories: scrunchies or clips? I love scrunchies."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #accessories #preference
15

Would you rather go gray gracefully or dye forever?

💡 Example: "Would you rather go gray gracefully or dye forever? I am all about embracing the gray."

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Frequent #color #aging
16

Slicked back ponytail or loose waves for work?

💡 Example: "Slicked back ponytail or loose waves for work? Loose waves keep it casual."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #work #style
17

Would you pick a middle part or side part?

💡 Example: "Would you pick a middle part or side part? Side part for me."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #part #preference
18

Curly hair routine or straightening routine?

💡 Example: "Curly hair routine or straightening routine? Curly routine all the way."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #routine #texture
19

Would you rather use a hair mask or a leave-in conditioner?

💡 Example: "Would you rather use a hair mask or a leave-in conditioner? I love hair masks for extra hydration."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Irregular #products #selfcare
20

Braided crown or fishtail braid?

💡 Example: "Braided crown or fishtail braid? Fishtail looks so pretty."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #braids #style
21

Volume or sleek look for special occasions?

💡 Example: "Volume or sleek look for special occasions? Volume for sure."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #event #style
22

Would you rather chop it all off or grow it out?

💡 Example: "Would you rather chop it all off or grow it out? I am tempted to chop it!"

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Frequent #change #haircut
23

Heat styling or air dry?

💡 Example: "Heat styling or air dry? Air dry for less damage."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #styling #routine
24

Would you choose a bold fringe or soft layers?

💡 Example: "Would you choose a bold fringe or soft layers? Soft layers are my go-to."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Irregular #cut #style
25

Retro waves or modern texture?

💡 Example: "Retro waves or modern texture? Modern texture is so chic."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #trend #texture
26

Would you rather have hair that grows super fast or never gets oily?

💡 Example: "Would you rather have hair that grows super fast or never gets oily? Never oily please!"

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Top #fun #wishful
27

High ponytail or low bun?

💡 Example: "High ponytail or low bun? High ponytail is my favorite."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #updo #preference
28

Would you pick glitter roots or pastel ends for a festival?

💡 Example: "Would you pick glitter roots or pastel ends for a festival? Pastel ends are so cute!"

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #festival #color
29

Silk pillowcase or cotton pillowcase for hair care?

💡 Example: "Silk pillowcase or cotton pillowcase for hair care? Silk makes a big difference."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #care #products
30

Would you rather style hair for a wedding or a casual picnic?

💡 Example: "Would you rather style hair for a wedding or a casual picnic? Weddings are my favorite to style."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Irregular #event #styling
31

Twist outs or braid outs for natural hair?

💡 Example: "Twist outs or braid outs for natural hair? Braid outs give me more definition."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #natural #styles
32

Would you choose a hair scarf or a headband?

💡 Example: "Would you choose a hair scarf or a headband? I love headbands for a quick fix."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #accessories #preference
33

Floral accents or pearl pins for bridal hair?

💡 Example: "Floral accents or pearl pins for bridal hair? Pearls are so elegant."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #bridal #accessories
34

Would you rather have hair that styles itself or never tangles?

💡 Example: "Would you rather have hair that styles itself or never tangles? Never tangles for sure."

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Frequent #fun #wishful
35

Wet look or matte finish for your hair?

💡 Example: "Wet look or matte finish for your hair? Matte finish is my pick."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #finish #trend
36

Would you go for a choppy bob or a sleek lob?

💡 Example: "Would you go for a choppy bob or a sleek lob? Choppy bob for more texture."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #cut #trend
37

French braid or Dutch braid?

💡 Example: "French braid or Dutch braid? Dutch braid is easier for me."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #braid #classic
38

Would you rather trim your own hair or trust a friend?

💡 Example: "Would you rather trim your own hair or trust a friend? I would trust a friend."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Irregular #DIY #fun
39

Satin scrunchies or velvet scrunchies?

💡 Example: "Satin scrunchies or velvet scrunchies? Velvet for the win."

🟢 Low Engagement Barrier 👤 Lurker #accessories #material
40

Would you pick a pop of color or a subtle balayage?

💡 Example: "Would you pick a pop of color or a subtle balayage? Subtle balayage looks great year-round."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #color #trend
41

Tousled waves or pin-straight hair for everyday?

💡 Example: "Tousled waves or pin-straight hair for everyday? Tousled waves are my favorite."

🟡 Medium Engagement Barrier 👤 Average #style #routine
42

Would you rather try space buns or a bubble ponytail?

💡 Example: "Would you rather try space buns or a bubble ponytail? Space buns are so playful!"

🔴 High Engagement Barrier 👤 Top #trendy #fun

How to Use These Templates

Post a This or That template as a standalone question or as part of a weekly engagement series. Encourage members to answer in the comments, and spark further discussion by replying to their choices. You can also use these prompts in Stories, polls, or as icebreakers before virtual events. Rotate topics to keep things fresh and invite all types of members to join.

Best Practices

  • Keep questions light, fun, and easy to answer.
  • Rotate between classic and trending hairstyling topics.
  • Engage with replies to encourage deeper conversation.
  • Avoid polarizing or overly technical choices.
  • Use visuals or emojis to add extra flair where possible.

All Platforms Tips

For all platforms, keep questions concise so they fit well in posts, comments, or stories. Use platform features like polls, stickers, or reactions to make choosing easy. Respond to answers to show appreciation and prompt further discussion. Adjust posting frequency based on your community's activity level.

Frequently Asked Questions

How can I use 'This or That' posts to spark discussions around trending hairstyling techniques, like curtain bangs vs butterfly layers?

Feature current hairstyling trends, such as curtain bangs vs butterfly layers or wolf cut vs mullet, in your 'This or That' posts. These comparisons encourage members to share personal experiences, preferences, and tips, making the discussions timely and relevant to ongoing industry conversations.

Should I include product-specific choices in 'This or That' posts, like sea salt spray vs mousse for achieving beach waves?

Absolutely! Product-based 'This or That' posts—like sea salt spray vs mousse or ceramic vs titanium flat irons—invite members to share their favorite tools and products for specific hairstyles. This not only boosts engagement but also provides valuable peer recommendations within the community.

How can 'This or That' posts help address common hairstyling challenges, such as managing frizz vs adding volume?

Use challenges that hairstylists and clients face—such as taming frizz vs boosting volume—as the basis for your 'This or That' posts. These comparisons prompt members to exchange techniques, product suggestions, and troubleshooting tips tailored to real hairstyling problems.

What’s the best way to use 'This or That' posts to engage both professional stylists and DIY enthusiasts in my community?

Balance your options with scenarios relevant to both groups—for example, 'salon blowout vs at-home blow dry,' or 'box dye vs professional color.' This inclusive approach encourages insights from professionals while inviting DIYers to share their perspectives, fostering a more dynamic discussion.

Can I use 'This or That' posts to highlight seasonal trends, such as summer balayage vs winter lowlights?

Yes! Highlighting seasonal hairstyle choices—like summer balayage vs winter lowlights or updos vs loose waves for special occasions—keeps your content fresh and timely. It also helps members stay updated on trends and plan their next looks according to the season.

How do I create 'This or That' posts that encourage members to share before-and-after photos of their hairstyle choices?

Craft prompts like 'blunt cut vs layered cut—show us your transformation!' or 'pixie vs long bob—post your before and after.' This invites members to visually showcase their hairstyling journeys, increasing engagement with user-generated content and fostering a sense of community pride.

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