Struggling to get your hairstyling community chatting? This or That prompts are a playful way to get everyone involved, no matter how busy. With these ready-made templates, you can spark quick responses and build real connection in your group.
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This or That questions tap into our instinct for quick decision-making, making it easy for even shy members to join the conversation. By offering two simple choices, you lower the barrier to entry and create a sense of inclusion. Members do not need to overthink or write long replies, which increases participation from all engagement levels.
The hairstyling spin keeps things relevant and fun, making it easy for everyone to share their preferences and discover what others love. This format also encourages lighthearted debates and friendly banter, which strengthens community bonds and keeps the mood positive.
Curls or straight hair? Which do you love more?
💡 Example: "Curls or straight hair? Which do you love more? I am all about big curls!"
Updo or down-do for a night out?
💡 Example: "Updo or down-do for a night out? I always go for an updo."
Would you pick bangs or no bangs?
💡 Example: "Would you pick bangs or no bangs? No bangs for me."
Long hair or short hair - what is your vibe?
💡 Example: "Long hair or short hair - what is your vibe? Short all the way!"
Bold color or natural tones for your next look?
💡 Example: "Bold color or natural tones for your next look? I am thinking purple!"
Classic ponytail or messy bun?
💡 Example: "Classic ponytail or messy bun? Messy bun every time."
Beach waves or sleek and smooth?
💡 Example: "Beach waves or sleek and smooth? I love beach waves."
Would you rather DIY your hair or visit a salon?
💡 Example: "Would you rather DIY your hair or visit a salon? Salon all the way for me."
Half-up style or all down?
💡 Example: "Half-up style or all down? I usually wear it all down."
Braids or buns for summer days?
💡 Example: "Braids or buns for summer days? Braids keep me cool."
Would you rather have a pixie cut or waist-length hair?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have a pixie cut or waist-length hair? Pixie cut for the win!"
Dry shampoo or wash and go?
💡 Example: "Dry shampoo or wash and go? Dry shampoo saves my mornings."
Would you choose highlights or balayage?
💡 Example: "Would you choose highlights or balayage? Balayage looks so natural."
Hair accessories: scrunchies or clips?
💡 Example: "Hair accessories: scrunchies or clips? I love scrunchies."
Would you rather go gray gracefully or dye forever?
💡 Example: "Would you rather go gray gracefully or dye forever? I am all about embracing the gray."
Slicked back ponytail or loose waves for work?
💡 Example: "Slicked back ponytail or loose waves for work? Loose waves keep it casual."
Would you pick a middle part or side part?
💡 Example: "Would you pick a middle part or side part? Side part for me."
Curly hair routine or straightening routine?
💡 Example: "Curly hair routine or straightening routine? Curly routine all the way."
Would you rather use a hair mask or a leave-in conditioner?
💡 Example: "Would you rather use a hair mask or a leave-in conditioner? I love hair masks for extra hydration."
Braided crown or fishtail braid?
💡 Example: "Braided crown or fishtail braid? Fishtail looks so pretty."
Volume or sleek look for special occasions?
💡 Example: "Volume or sleek look for special occasions? Volume for sure."
Would you rather chop it all off or grow it out?
💡 Example: "Would you rather chop it all off or grow it out? I am tempted to chop it!"
Heat styling or air dry?
💡 Example: "Heat styling or air dry? Air dry for less damage."
Would you choose a bold fringe or soft layers?
💡 Example: "Would you choose a bold fringe or soft layers? Soft layers are my go-to."
Retro waves or modern texture?
💡 Example: "Retro waves or modern texture? Modern texture is so chic."
Would you rather have hair that grows super fast or never gets oily?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have hair that grows super fast or never gets oily? Never oily please!"
High ponytail or low bun?
💡 Example: "High ponytail or low bun? High ponytail is my favorite."
Would you pick glitter roots or pastel ends for a festival?
💡 Example: "Would you pick glitter roots or pastel ends for a festival? Pastel ends are so cute!"
Silk pillowcase or cotton pillowcase for hair care?
💡 Example: "Silk pillowcase or cotton pillowcase for hair care? Silk makes a big difference."
Would you rather style hair for a wedding or a casual picnic?
💡 Example: "Would you rather style hair for a wedding or a casual picnic? Weddings are my favorite to style."
Twist outs or braid outs for natural hair?
💡 Example: "Twist outs or braid outs for natural hair? Braid outs give me more definition."
Would you choose a hair scarf or a headband?
💡 Example: "Would you choose a hair scarf or a headband? I love headbands for a quick fix."
Floral accents or pearl pins for bridal hair?
💡 Example: "Floral accents or pearl pins for bridal hair? Pearls are so elegant."
Would you rather have hair that styles itself or never tangles?
💡 Example: "Would you rather have hair that styles itself or never tangles? Never tangles for sure."
Wet look or matte finish for your hair?
💡 Example: "Wet look or matte finish for your hair? Matte finish is my pick."
Would you go for a choppy bob or a sleek lob?
💡 Example: "Would you go for a choppy bob or a sleek lob? Choppy bob for more texture."
French braid or Dutch braid?
💡 Example: "French braid or Dutch braid? Dutch braid is easier for me."
Would you rather trim your own hair or trust a friend?
💡 Example: "Would you rather trim your own hair or trust a friend? I would trust a friend."
Satin scrunchies or velvet scrunchies?
💡 Example: "Satin scrunchies or velvet scrunchies? Velvet for the win."
Would you pick a pop of color or a subtle balayage?
💡 Example: "Would you pick a pop of color or a subtle balayage? Subtle balayage looks great year-round."
Tousled waves or pin-straight hair for everyday?
💡 Example: "Tousled waves or pin-straight hair for everyday? Tousled waves are my favorite."
Would you rather try space buns or a bubble ponytail?
💡 Example: "Would you rather try space buns or a bubble ponytail? Space buns are so playful!"
Post a This or That template as a standalone question or as part of a weekly engagement series. Encourage members to answer in the comments, and spark further discussion by replying to their choices. You can also use these prompts in Stories, polls, or as icebreakers before virtual events. Rotate topics to keep things fresh and invite all types of members to join.
For all platforms, keep questions concise so they fit well in posts, comments, or stories. Use platform features like polls, stickers, or reactions to make choosing easy. Respond to answers to show appreciation and prompt further discussion. Adjust posting frequency based on your community's activity level.
They are quick, low-pressure, and encourage members to share opinions without needing long answers.
Once or twice a week works well for most communities, but adjust based on your group's activity.
Yes, they are perfect for polls, stories, or regular text posts across all platforms.
Reply to member answers, tag friends to join in, and use a friendly, playful tone.
Yes, the questions are light and simple, making them accessible for all types of members.
Absolutely. Feel free to tweak wording or add emojis to match your community's style.
Calls to action help, but are not required for every post. Mix it up for the best engagement.