Tired of everyone asking for the same dating advice? Want to help your community discover new tools and insights? Our Recommend a Resource templates make it easy to share valuable recommendations and encourage everyone to contribute their favorite dating resources.
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Inviting members to recommend resources taps into the collective knowledge of your dating community. People love sharing what has helped them, and seeing others benefit creates a sense of contribution and connection. This approach fosters a helpful culture, where members feel valued for their experiences and discoveries.
Sharing resources also lowers the barrier for participation, especially for those who may not feel comfortable giving advice but are happy to pass along something useful. It turns your community into a living knowledge base, helping everyone grow and find success in their dating lives.
What dating podcast has given you the best advice? Share the link and how it helped you.
💡 Example: "What dating podcast has given you the best advice? Share the link and how it helped you."
Have you tried any dating apps that worked well for you? Recommend one and tell us why.
💡 Example: "Have you tried any dating apps that worked well for you? Recommend one and tell us why."
Drop your favorite dating blog or article below and share what you learned from it.
💡 Example: "Drop your favorite dating blog or article below and share what you learned from it."
Is there a YouTube channel that helped you improve your dating life? Post it here.
💡 Example: "Is there a YouTube channel that helped you improve your dating life? Post it here."
Which dating advice book do you recommend for someone starting fresh?
💡 Example: "Which dating advice book do you recommend for someone starting fresh?"
Share a TED Talk that changed your perspective on relationships.
💡 Example: "Share a TED Talk that changed your perspective on relationships."
Do you use any tools to stay safe while dating online? Share your favorites.
💡 Example: "Do you use any tools to stay safe while dating online? Share your favorites."
What is one resource you wish you found sooner in your dating journey?
💡 Example: "What is one resource you wish you found sooner in your dating journey?"
Share a meme or Instagram account that makes dating less stressful for you.
💡 Example: "Share a meme or Instagram account that makes dating less stressful for you."
Have you joined any support groups or forums that helped your dating confidence?
💡 Example: "Have you joined any support groups or forums that helped your dating confidence?"
What’s an underrated dating resource more people should know about?
💡 Example: "What’s an underrated dating resource more people should know about?"
Recommend a playlist or song that puts you in the mood for a great date.
💡 Example: "Recommend a playlist or song that puts you in the mood for a great date."
Have you read any articles on first date tips? Share your favorite with us.
💡 Example: "Have you read any articles on first date tips? Share your favorite with us."
What YouTube video helped you most with online dating profiles?
💡 Example: "What YouTube video helped you most with online dating profiles?"
Share an app that helps you plan creative dates.
💡 Example: "Share an app that helps you plan creative dates."
Which Instagram account do you follow for daily dating inspiration?
💡 Example: "Which Instagram account do you follow for daily dating inspiration?"
Is there a relationship coach or influencer you trust? Tell us who and why.
💡 Example: "Is there a relationship coach or influencer you trust? Tell us who and why."
What resource helped you navigate breakups in a healthy way?
💡 Example: "What resource helped you navigate breakups in a healthy way?"
Share any books or podcasts that improved your communication in dating.
💡 Example: "Share any books or podcasts that improved your communication in dating."
Do you use any tools for managing nerves before a date? Share your go-to.
💡 Example: "Do you use any tools for managing nerves before a date? Share your go-to."
Have you found any online workshops or webinars useful for dating? Let us know.
💡 Example: "Have you found any online workshops or webinars useful for dating? Let us know."
What is your favorite dating advice Instagram reel or TikTok?
💡 Example: "What is your favorite dating advice Instagram reel or TikTok?"
Share a resource that helped you set healthy boundaries when dating.
💡 Example: "Share a resource that helped you set healthy boundaries when dating."
Is there a checklist or worksheet you use before going on dates? Recommend it here.
💡 Example: "Is there a checklist or worksheet you use before going on dates? Recommend it here."
What dating app feature do you wish more people knew about?
💡 Example: "What dating app feature do you wish more people knew about?"
Have a favorite dating coach’s newsletter? Drop the signup link below.
💡 Example: "Have a favorite dating coach’s newsletter? Drop the signup link below."
Share a free resource that made online dating easier for you.
💡 Example: "Share a free resource that made online dating easier for you."
What resource do you turn to when you need dating motivation?
💡 Example: "What resource do you turn to when you need dating motivation?"
Have you found a quiz or assessment that helped your dating self-awareness?
💡 Example: "Have you found a quiz or assessment that helped your dating self-awareness?"
Recommend a resource for long-distance relationships.
💡 Example: "Recommend a resource for long-distance relationships."
Share a Facebook group or community that offers great dating support.
💡 Example: "Share a Facebook group or community that offers great dating support."
What video series or channel helped you overcome dating anxiety?
💡 Example: "What video series or channel helped you overcome dating anxiety?"
Do you follow any TikTokers for dating tips? Share your favorite account.
💡 Example: "Do you follow any TikTokers for dating tips? Share your favorite account."
Share a resource that helped you identify red flags in dating.
💡 Example: "Share a resource that helped you identify red flags in dating."
What app or tool helps you organize your dating schedule?
💡 Example: "What app or tool helps you organize your dating schedule?"
Recommend a dating advice book that is great for introverts.
💡 Example: "Recommend a dating advice book that is great for introverts."
Have you found a resource that helps with online dating messaging? Tell us about it.
💡 Example: "Have you found a resource that helps with online dating messaging? Tell us about it."
Share a resource that helps you spot catfishing or scams.
💡 Example: "Share a resource that helps you spot catfishing or scams."
What online course or mini-class improved your dating skills?
💡 Example: "What online course or mini-class improved your dating skills?"
Recommend a resource for LGBTQ+ dating support.
💡 Example: "Recommend a resource for LGBTQ+ dating support."
Share a video, article, or app that made you feel more confident on dates.
💡 Example: "Share a video, article, or app that made you feel more confident on dates."
To use these templates, simply copy and personalize them before posting in your dating community. Encourage members to reply with their favorite articles, apps, podcasts, or videos. Ask them to explain why the resource is helpful or how it improved their dating experience. Keep threads organized by using hashtags or resource lists, and regularly highlight top contributions to motivate ongoing sharing.
On all platforms, start with an engaging question and provide a clear call to action. Use tagging and categorization tools to keep resource threads organized. Pin or highlight popular recommendations to increase visibility. Encourage replies and follow-ups to spark ongoing discussion.
To maintain a safe and unbiased environment, set clear boundaries on what constitutes a genuine recommendation versus self-promotion. You can use templates that ask members to share their experiences with specific dating apps, including what worked for them (e.g., matchmaking algorithms, safety features), but require full disclosure if they have any affiliation with the app. Remind members to focus on sharing personal experiences rather than advertising.
Use templates that specifically ask members to share tools or articles that have helped them verify profiles, spot red flags, or plan safe first dates. You might use prompt language such as, 'What resources do you rely on for staying safe during online dating?' or 'Which apps or guides have helped you vet matches before meeting up?' This encourages sharing of practical, safety-focused resources tailored to dating.
Incorporate templates that specifically ask for recommendations focused on LGBTQ+ dating, such as inclusive dating apps, queer-friendly event listings, or guides for coming out in the dating world. For example, you might prompt, 'Share your go-to resources for LGBTQ+ dating support or safe meeting spaces.' This ensures recommendations are relevant and sensitive to the needs of LGBTQ+ members.
Establish clear community guidelines that prioritize respectful and healthy dating advice. When using recommend-a-resource templates, specify that recommendations should support positive, consensual, and respectful connections. If a member suggests a controversial resource, review it for alignment with your community values, and be prepared to moderate or guide the discussion towards healthier alternatives if needed.
Use scenario-specific templates like 'What podcasts, articles, or apps have helped you navigate long-distance dating?' or 'For those reentering the dating scene after divorce, which resources have been most supportive?' This targeted approach makes it easier for members to share and discover resources directly relevant to their unique dating experiences.
Design recommend-a-resource posts that invite members to share books, apps, or online communities that have helped them maintain self-esteem, set boundaries, or manage anxiety around dating. For example, prompt with, 'Which mental health resources have supported you during your dating journey?' This not only encourages resource sharing but also normalizes conversations about emotional well-being in the dating context.
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