Want to make your dating community even better but not sure what members really want? Getting direct feedback helps you understand what works, what does not, and what your members are hoping for. Use these feedback templates to invite honest opinions, spark thoughtful discussions, and shape your community for success.
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Openly requesting community feedback creates a sense of belonging and shared ownership among your members. When people feel heard, they are more likely to engage, contribute ideas, and stay active. This two-way communication helps you identify what is working and what might need improvement, all while building trust and transparency.
Feedback posts also tap into members' desire to have an impact on their experience. In dating communities, where trust and comfort are key, showing that you care about opinions can turn casual users into passionate advocates. It also helps you spot trends and pain points early, letting you adapt quickly to members' needs.
What is one thing you wish was different about our dating community?
💡 Example: "I wish there were more icebreaker games for new members."
How do you feel about our latest profile update? Let us know your thoughts.
💡 Example: "The new photo layout is great but I miss the old bio section."
Which part of the community helps you connect best with others?
💡 Example: "I like the weekly group chats for meeting new people."
We are planning a virtual event. What would make it fun for you?
💡 Example: "A themed trivia night would be awesome!"
What is your favorite way to break the ice with someone new here?
💡 Example: "I usually send a funny meme to start the conversation."
Have you tried our new chat feature? Share your experience below.
💡 Example: "Yes, the chat is smoother but sometimes messages lag."
What kind of dating advice would you like to see more of?
💡 Example: "More advice for long-distance relationships, please."
If you could change one rule about our community, what would it be?
💡 Example: "Maybe relax the photo verification process a bit."
What makes you feel welcome when you join a new dating group?
💡 Example: "Friendly introductions from moderators help me feel at home."
How can we make this community safer for everyone?
💡 Example: "Add more reporting options for inappropriate messages."
What do you enjoy most about being part of our dating community?
💡 Example: "I love the supportive vibe and friendly members."
Tell us about a feature you use the most and why.
💡 Example: "I use the match suggestions every day because they are accurate."
What topics would you like discussed in our next group chat?
💡 Example: "Let us talk about first date ideas!"
How easy is it to find someone with similar interests here?
💡 Example: "It is pretty easy since we can filter by hobbies."
What would help you feel more confident reaching out to new people?
💡 Example: "Maybe some sample conversation starters would help."
Have you noticed any challenges with our moderation? Share your feedback.
💡 Example: "Moderators are quick to help but sometimes too strict with posts."
What is the most helpful resource you have found in our community?
💡 Example: "The FAQ guide for new users was super helpful."
Which part of our app or site do you think needs the most improvement?
💡 Example: "The search function could be more intuitive."
What feature do you wish we would add next?
💡 Example: "A video introduction option would be great!"
How could we make our welcome process even better for new members?
💡 Example: "Maybe a group call for all new joiners each week."
What is one thing you wish you knew when you joined?
💡 Example: "That people are friendlier than they seem at first!"
How comfortable do you feel sharing in our group? Any tips for us?
💡 Example: "I feel safe but sometimes topics get too personal."
What makes you stay active in our dating community?
💡 Example: "I stay for the friendly conversations and support."
Did you find our recent event helpful or fun? Why or why not?
💡 Example: "The event was fun but I wish it had more breakout sessions."
What is one way we could help you feel more included here?
💡 Example: "Recognize new members more often in posts."
How do you usually find matches here? Any suggestions for improvement?
💡 Example: "I use the search filters but more tags would be helpful."
What kind of group activities would you like to see us organize?
💡 Example: "Speed-friending events would be fun!"
Have you ever had a great experience here? Tell us what made it special.
💡 Example: "I met my partner here thanks to the intro thread."
Is there any dating topic you feel is missing from our discussions?
💡 Example: "We do not talk much about dating with kids."
How can we support you better on your dating journey?
💡 Example: "Weekly check-ins would help keep me motivated."
What is your honest opinion about our guidelines?
💡 Example: "They are fair but could be clearer about photo rules."
What small change would make a big difference for you here?
💡 Example: "A daily question prompt would spark more conversations."
Share your thoughts on our community vibe. How does it feel?
💡 Example: "It feels positive and welcoming overall."
Do you think our events are well-timed? Any suggestions?
💡 Example: "Evenings work best for me. Earlier events are hard to attend."
How do you prefer to receive community updates?
💡 Example: "I like email summaries more than app notifications."
What is your favorite success story from our community?
💡 Example: "My favorite is the couple who met last year and just got engaged."
Do you have ideas for making our space more inclusive?
💡 Example: "Host events for LGBTQ+ members and allies."
How was your onboarding experience? Any suggestions for new joiners?
💡 Example: "The welcome message was nice but a checklist would help."
What makes you recommend our community to others?
💡 Example: "I tell friends about the friendly members and safe environment."
Is there anything stopping you from being more active? Let us know.
💡 Example: "I am shy about posting because I worry no one will reply."
Pick a template that matches your feedback goal and personalize it with relevant details or examples. Post regularly, especially after new features launch or community events. Encourage honest responses by keeping your tone open and appreciative. Be sure to follow up by acknowledging feedback and, where possible, acting on it. This demonstrates that you listen and value your members' voices.
Across all platforms, post feedback requests at times when your audience is most active. Pin important feedback threads for visibility. Use polls for quick takes but also offer space for longer comments. Moderate with care so all voices feel welcome and respected.
Aim to request feedback regularly but not so often that it feels repetitive. Monthly or after key updates is ideal.
Use gentle prompts, reassure them their views are valued, and consider anonymous feedback options if possible.
Acknowledge all input, act on feasible suggestions, and communicate any changes made as a result of member feedback.
Thank members for being honest, address concerns respectfully, and use criticism as a chance to improve.
Yes, these templates are designed to be platform-agnostic and work across forums, social groups, and apps.
Try rephrasing your question, tagging active members, or offering incentives for participation to increase engagement.
Follow up publicly on suggestions, highlight member contributions, and show clear examples of feedback influencing changes.