Struggling to spark lively conversations in your beauty community? This or That posts are a simple, fun way to get members chatting and sharing their preferences. Use these templates to turn even your quietest group into an active hub of lighthearted engagement.
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This or That content taps into the human love of quick decisions and low-stakes opinions. By presenting two relatable options, you invite instant participation without overthinking or pressure. This makes it easy for everyone, from lurkers to super fans, to jump in.
Beauty topics are naturally engaging and personal, so This or That questions let members share their tastes in a playful, non-judgmental way. These prompts create a positive feedback loop: as more people comment, others feel encouraged to join, building a sense of community and belonging. The relaxed tone also fosters connection and reveals trends, which helps leaders learn more about their members.
Matte or dewy finish - which do you prefer for your everyday look?
💡 Example: "Matte or dewy finish - which do you prefer for your everyday look?"
Red lipstick or nude lips - which one wins your heart?
💡 Example: "Red lipstick or nude lips - which one wins your heart?"
Sheet mask or clay mask - what's your go-to for self-care nights?
💡 Example: "Sheet mask or clay mask - what's your go-to for self-care nights?"
Bold brows or natural brows - which trend do you love more?
💡 Example: "Bold brows or natural brows - which trend do you love more?"
Long hair or short hair - what suits your style best?
💡 Example: "Long hair or short hair - what suits your style best?"
Morning skincare or nighttime skincare - which feels more important to you?
💡 Example: "Morning skincare or nighttime skincare - which feels more important to you?"
Glossy lips or matte lips - pick your favorite finish!
💡 Example: "Glossy lips or matte lips - pick your favorite finish!"
Neutral eyeshadow or colorful eyeshadow - which do you wear more?
💡 Example: "Neutral eyeshadow or colorful eyeshadow - which do you wear more?"
Gel nails or classic polish - what do you prefer and why?
💡 Example: "Gel nails or classic polish - what do you prefer and why?"
Sunscreen every day or only on sunny days - what is your habit?
💡 Example: "Sunscreen every day or only on sunny days - what is your habit?"
Clean beauty or high-performance products - what matters more to you?
💡 Example: "Clean beauty or high-performance products - what matters more to you?"
DIY face masks or buying from the store - which do you usually pick?
💡 Example: "DIY face masks or buying from the store - which do you usually pick?"
Mascara or eyeliner - if you could only choose one?
💡 Example: "Mascara or eyeliner - if you could only choose one?"
Face wash or micellar water - which cleanser do you reach for first?
💡 Example: "Face wash or micellar water - which cleanser do you reach for first?"
Powder blush or cream blush - which formula do you love more?
💡 Example: "Powder blush or cream blush - which formula do you love more?"
Full coverage or light coverage foundation - what is your go-to?
💡 Example: "Full coverage or light coverage foundation - what is your go-to?"
Pastel nails or bold nails - which look are you rocking lately?
💡 Example: "Pastel nails or bold nails - which look are you rocking lately?"
Blowout or air-dry - how do you usually style your hair?
💡 Example: "Blowout or air-dry - how do you usually style your hair?"
Face mist or setting spray - which one is always in your bag?
💡 Example: "Face mist or setting spray - which one is always in your bag?"
Natural makeup or glam makeup - which are you wearing today?
💡 Example: "Natural makeup or glam makeup - which are you wearing today?"
Curls or straight hair - what is your go-to look?
💡 Example: "Curls or straight hair - what is your go-to look?"
Brown mascara or black mascara - which do you keep stocked?
💡 Example: "Brown mascara or black mascara - which do you keep stocked?"
Bubble baths or quick showers - how do you unwind?
💡 Example: "Bubble baths or quick showers - how do you unwind?"
Classic French mani or nail art - which would you book at the salon?
💡 Example: "Classic French mani or nail art - which would you book at the salon?"
Perfume or body mist - which scent do you reach for each day?
💡 Example: "Perfume or body mist - which scent do you reach for each day?"
Lip balm or lip gloss - which is always in your pocket?
💡 Example: "Lip balm or lip gloss - which is always in your pocket?"
Exfoliating scrubs or chemical exfoliants - what works best for you?
💡 Example: "Exfoliating scrubs or chemical exfoliants - what works best for you?"
Overlined lips or natural lip line - which do you prefer?
💡 Example: "Overlined lips or natural lip line - which do you prefer?"
Bronzer or highlighter - which step can you not skip?
💡 Example: "Bronzer or highlighter - which step can you not skip?"
DIY hair masks or salon treatments - how do you pamper your hair?
💡 Example: "DIY hair masks or salon treatments - how do you pamper your hair?"
Toner or essence - which one is your skincare must-have?
💡 Example: "Toner or essence - which one is your skincare must-have?"
False lashes or mascara only - how do you enhance your eyes?
💡 Example: "False lashes or mascara only - how do you enhance your eyes?"
French braid or ponytail - what's your favorite quick hairstyle?
💡 Example: "French braid or ponytail - what's your favorite quick hairstyle?"
Spa day at home or spa day out - which do you dream of more?
💡 Example: "Spa day at home or spa day out - which do you dream of more?"
Bright lip or bold eye - which statement do you love to make?
💡 Example: "Bright lip or bold eye - which statement do you love to make?"
Face oils or moisturizers - which do you reach for in winter?
💡 Example: "Face oils or moisturizers - which do you reach for in winter?"
Serum or ampoule - which step do you never skip?
💡 Example: "Serum or ampoule - which step do you never skip?"
Makeup brushes or sponges - what is your preference for blending?
💡 Example: "Makeup brushes or sponges - what is your preference for blending?"
Hair accessories or statement earrings - which do you love to wear more?
💡 Example: "Hair accessories or statement earrings - which do you love to wear more?"
Spa music or podcasts - what do you listen to during your beauty routines?
💡 Example: "Spa music or podcasts - what do you listen to during your beauty routines?"
Travel-sized or full-sized products - which do you buy more often?
💡 Example: "Travel-sized or full-sized products - which do you buy more often?"
Sheet mask selfie or no selfie - do you share your beauty moments online?
💡 Example: "Sheet mask selfie or no selfie - do you share your beauty moments online?"
To use these templates, simply copy and paste your favorite prompt into your community platform of choice. Add a relevant emoji or image for extra flair. Post consistently, such as weekly or bi-weekly, to keep participation steady. Respond to answers to encourage more sharing and show appreciation for member input. You can also use results as inspiration for deeper discussions or future content ideas.
These This or That templates work great on all platforms. On forums and Facebook groups, post as text with a poll or comments. On Instagram, use Stories' poll stickers or ask in captions. On Discord or Slack, pin your post for visibility and encourage emoji reactions. Tailor your posting style to fit each platform's vibe, but keep the question clear and easy to answer.
Aim for once a week or bi-weekly to keep engagement steady without overwhelming members.
Tag a few active members, reply to early comments, and occasionally ask why they chose their answer.
Absolutely! Images and polls make posts more interactive and visually appealing, especially on social platforms.
Avoid divisive, controversial, or overly personal topics. Stick to fun, light, and inclusive beauty subjects.
Track popular choices to inform tutorials, reviews, or deeper discussions that match community interests.
Light moderation is helpful. Step in if discussions go off-topic or become negative, but most responses are positive.
Yes, you can swap in your products as options, but keep the tone playful and avoid sounding too salesy.