Running out of ways to get parents talking in your baby care community? Spark instant engagement with playful This or That prompts that are easy to answer and fun for everyone. Build connections and keep the conversation flowing with these ready-to-use ideas.
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This or That prompts are highly effective because they lower the barrier to participation. Members only need to make a quick, simple choice, which feels easy and inviting, especially for busy parents. The playful nature of the questions sparks curiosity and can lead to lighthearted debates or shared stories.
By focusing on relatable baby care scenarios, these prompts help members feel understood and seen, which builds trust and a sense of belonging. The format encourages even shy or irregular members to join in, since there is no pressure for a lengthy or perfect answer. As more people respond, the thread stays active and visible, driving further engagement and fostering a lively, welcoming community.
Diapers or pull-ups - which do you prefer for your little one?
💡 Example: "Diapers or pull-ups - which do you prefer for your little one? Tell us why!"
Morning baths or evening baths - which works best in your house?
💡 Example: "Morning baths or evening baths - which works best in your house? Share your routine!"
Plain onesies or bold prints - what do you buy more often?
💡 Example: "Plain onesies or bold prints - what do you buy more often?"
Stroller naps or crib naps - which does your baby enjoy more?
💡 Example: "Stroller naps or crib naps - which does your baby enjoy more? Tell us your nap secret!"
Swaddle or sleep sack - what is your go-to for bedtime?
💡 Example: "Swaddle or sleep sack - what is your go-to for bedtime?"
Read a book or sing a lullaby before bed?
💡 Example: "Read a book or sing a lullaby before bed?"
Homemade baby food or store bought - what do you prefer?
💡 Example: "Homemade baby food or store bought - what do you prefer? Why?"
Rocking chair or bouncing ball for soothing?
💡 Example: "Rocking chair or bouncing ball for soothing?"
Pacifier or thumb - which does your baby use?
💡 Example: "Pacifier or thumb - which does your baby use?"
Front carrier or back carrier - which do you reach for?
💡 Example: "Front carrier or back carrier - which do you reach for?"
Play mat or baby gym - which gets more use in your home?
💡 Example: "Play mat or baby gym - which gets more use in your home?"
White noise or silence for sleep time?
💡 Example: "White noise or silence for sleep time?"
Bath toys or no toys in the tub?
💡 Example: "Bath toys or no toys in the tub?"
Onesie with snaps or zip-up - which is easier for you?
💡 Example: "Onesie with snaps or zip-up - which is easier for you? Let us know!"
Baby wipes - unscented or scented?
💡 Example: "Baby wipes - unscented or scented?"
Outdoor walks or indoor play - which does your baby prefer?
💡 Example: "Outdoor walks or indoor play - which does your baby prefer? Share your favorite activity!"
Music time or story time - what is your go-to for fun?
💡 Example: "Music time or story time - what is your go-to for fun?"
Baby lotion or coconut oil after bath?
💡 Example: "Baby lotion or coconut oil after bath?"
Baby swing or bouncer - which calms your baby faster?
💡 Example: "Baby swing or bouncer - which calms your baby faster? Tell us below!"
Tummy time on the floor or on a parent’s chest?
💡 Example: "Tummy time on the floor or on a parent’s chest? What works best for you?"
Wipe warmers - must-have or skip it?
💡 Example: "Wipe warmers - must-have or skip it?"
Cloth bibs or silicone bibs - which do you use more?
💡 Example: "Cloth bibs or silicone bibs - which do you use more?"
Early riser or night owl - what describes your baby?
💡 Example: "Early riser or night owl - what describes your baby?"
Sippy cup or straw cup - which did your baby prefer first?
💡 Example: "Sippy cup or straw cup - which did your baby prefer first? Share your experience!"
Soft books or board books for story time?
💡 Example: "Soft books or board books for story time?"
Burp cloths - fancy or basic?
💡 Example: "Burp cloths - fancy or basic?"
Baby shoes or barefoot at home?
💡 Example: "Baby shoes or barefoot at home?"
Socks or footed pajamas for chilly nights?
💡 Example: "Socks or footed pajamas for chilly nights?"
Baby monitor - video or audio only?
💡 Example: "Baby monitor - video or audio only?"
Washcloth baths or soak in the tub?
💡 Example: "Washcloth baths or soak in the tub?"
Teething rings or frozen washcloths - what soothes best?
💡 Example: "Teething rings or frozen washcloths - what soothes best? Drop your answer!"
Laundry day - daily or every few days?
💡 Example: "Laundry day - daily or every few days?"
Baby sunscreen - lotion or stick?
💡 Example: "Baby sunscreen - lotion or stick?"
Jogging stroller or regular stroller for walks?
💡 Example: "Jogging stroller or regular stroller for walks? Which do you love?"
Baby bath - sink or baby tub?
💡 Example: "Baby bath - sink or baby tub?"
Pump or nurse - what worked best for your feeding journey?
💡 Example: "Pump or nurse - what worked best for your feeding journey? Share your story!"
Playpen or open floor for playtime?
💡 Example: "Playpen or open floor for playtime?"
Mini photo shoots - monthly or just on special occasions?
💡 Example: "Mini photo shoots - monthly or just on special occasions?"
Baby hats - always or only in winter?
💡 Example: "Baby hats - always or only in winter?"
Bath time - quick splash or long soak?
💡 Example: "Bath time - quick splash or long soak?"
Parent and baby classes - online or in person?
💡 Example: "Parent and baby classes - online or in person? Which do you prefer?"
To use these templates, simply copy and paste a prompt into your community platform and invite members to share their pick. Rotate questions regularly to keep things fresh and encourage participation at different times of day. You can also use polls or stories features for quick answers, or ask members to explain why they chose their option for richer discussion. Mix and match templates to fit your group's unique interests and adjust the frequency based on your engagement goals.
These templates work across all platforms. For forums or Facebook groups, post as a regular text or image post. On Instagram or TikTok, use Stories or Reels with interactive stickers or polls. In chat-based communities, drop a prompt during peak activity times. Always respond to comments to keep the conversation going.
To engage your community on popular baby care topics, incorporate widely discussed debates such as 'cloth vs. disposable diapers,' 'breastfeeding vs. formula,' or 'co-sleeping vs. crib.' Use clear visuals and neutral language to encourage respectful sharing of experiences, as these topics can be sensitive. This approach sparks discussion and offers new parents valuable insights into real-world pros and cons.
Focus on milestones where care approaches often differ, such as 'swaddling vs. sleep sacks for newborns,' 'purees vs. baby-led weaning for first foods,' or 'tummy time on mat vs. caregiver's chest.' These moments are highly relatable and encourage parents to share personal preferences and tips, making the community richer for everyone.
Highlight frequent dilemmas parents face, such as 'travel system vs. umbrella stroller,' 'glass vs. plastic bottles,' or 'wipe warmers: must-have or skip?' Including images and brief pros/cons helps guide discussion. Tagging specific brands or models can invite recommendations and honest reviews, making your community a trusted resource.
Discussions around sleep training (e.g., 'Ferber vs. No-Cry' methods) can become passionate. Set clear community guidelines about respectful dialogue before posting. Consider including disclaimers that all babies are different and that parents should consult pediatricians for medical advice. Prompt members to share what worked for them rather than what is 'best,' to foster a supportive atmosphere.
Incorporate questions like 'babywearing: wrap vs. structured carrier' or 'diaper-free time: common or unusual?' and invite members to share approaches unique to their backgrounds. This not only increases inclusivity but also broadens knowledge about diverse practices, helping your community become more globally relevant.
Absolutely! Use prompts like 'traditional baby monitor vs. smart wearable,' or 'organic skincare vs. conventional brands.' These posts help you gauge member interest in new trends while also educating the community about innovations in baby care. Follow up with summary posts highlighting the most popular choices or sharing resources about hot topics.
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